06 Ody Starts in 3rd gear

Hi, I have an 06 ody with a freshly rebuilt (by me) transmission, including all new solenoids. Transmission starts off in 3rd gear when put into drive. If put into 2nd gear, goes 1st to 2nd a little harsh. Put into drive after 2nd, harsh shift into 3rd. Reverse works fine. Fluid is clean, no slipping. I used Maxlife trans fluid. No transmission or engine codes. Any thoughts? TIA. Happy to pay an expert for advice.